[Aether]
\nWe're talking about luv. Right?
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\n[Neha]
\nYeah.
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\n[Aether]
\nSo-
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\n[Neha]
\n(laughs)
\nI'm sorry.
\nI-
\nI can't take this seriously
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\n[Aether]
\nYou can go ahead.
\nI'm genuine.
\nLike, I'm being genuine.
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\n[Neha]
\nI know. I know.
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\n[Aether]
\nLike, you know, the whole the whole, like, how, like, EP is, like, about, like, my perspective on luv.
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\n[Neha]
\nYeah, Yeah.
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\n[Aether]
\nBut kind of I don't have a female perspective. So what do you think? Do you think about luv ever?
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\n[Neha]
\nYeah.
\nI do. No. Yeah. I think I think love exists. Yeah.
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\n[Neha]
\nI've thought about, like, soulmates. I've thought about, like, finding love and falling in love a lot. I feel like a lot of girls do. Yeah. I don't think I don't think it's something I have to, like, go out and look for.
\nI think it's something that's gonna, you know, come and find me.
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\n[Aether]
\nI feel like that's so risky, like, leaving it up to fate, what if you think it's the right person but it's the wrong one?
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\n[Neha]
\nIt's the right person that's the wrong one?
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\n[Aether]
\nWhat if you think it's the right person and it's not?
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\n[Neha]
\nThen, you know, screw up and you, like, fuck up and you make a mistake, and you'll learn over it.
\nAnd then it'll, like, you know, make you a better person. And maybe next time you find the right one.
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\n[Aether]
\nOkay-
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\n[Neha]
\nI don't know! It's not healthy to be in a relationship if they're bad for you.
\n
\nYou know? Like, it depends on, like, how they're bad. If they bring you down, if they, like, they gaslight you, if they just don't make you feel, like, happy, then I feel like just don't be in a relationship with them. Be in a relationship with someone that makes you feel good, someone that, like, brings you up. Like, there's no wrong time.
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\n[Aether]
\nSo for you, it's a very practical..
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\n[Neha]
\nI feel like like if you're too-if you're too airhead-y about love, like, if you're if it's too, like, head up in the clouds, and if like-
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\nLove requires some practicality.
\nLike, love requires you to be decisive and make decisions and be sure about yourself. Otherwise, I feel like it's not gonna work out. You know?
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\n[Aether]
\nLike, you know, something can be beautiful because it's imperfect.
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\n[Neha]
\nYes.
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\n[Aether]
\nYou know, like, like, beauty marks, like that. Mhmm. And or because it's flawed or because it's, like, poisonous or something. That's why-
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\n[Neha]
\nMhm.
\nYeah.
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\n[Aether]
\nThat's why it's beautiful.
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\n[Neha J]
\nYeah. Like the concept, like, some people are attracted to brokenness, I guess. Yeah.
\n
\nLike, people are attracted to, like, are you talking about how some people are attracted to people who go through trauma and shit?
\n
\nThat's really complicated. Like, there's a lot of people I hear saying that, like, people sometimes just wanna go into relationships because they find someone who has, like, trauma, like, attractive, like, because they think they, like, can fix them or something.
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\nBut I feel like a relationship can, like, heal trauma or, like, you can, like, both be going through some shit and the relationship can, like, you know, make you feel better. It can, like, heal you both together.
\n
\nBut I don't know. I feel like-
\nI don't know what to think. Lowkey.
\n
\nIf- if you're both, like, struggling, if you both have scars on the inside, I think if you find, like, solace in each other and if you guys think if you guys, like, sort of help each other through it, I think that's, like, a sign of a healthy relationship, I think that would be chill.
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\n[Aether]
\nLike, sometimes I feel like the circumstances can fuck you over.
\n
\nI mean they fuck you over so hard, and it's like you-
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\n[Neha]
\nThey could.
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\nBut you can't let go.
\n
\nI think other other people-it's good to have input from other people, but I don't think they should dictate, like, whether or not you should get into a relationship. Like, you have free will. It's your choice. Like, if you feel good around this person, like, fuck what everyone else says, you know?
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\nBut, yeah. No. I don't think people should-I don't think your friends, unless they have your best interest in heart and unless you're actually being, like, hurt by this guy and you're an idiot, I think it would be fine to trust your feelings because, like, I feel like intuition is important. You know what you feel around your person. And if they fit make you feel good regardless of the circumstances, I think you have free will and you can figure out how to make time for them and you can figure out how to, like, stay in a relationship with them.
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\n[Aether]
\nWhat if their friends hate you and you're willing to take the risk, but they're not?
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\n[Neha]
\nBut they're not willing to take the risk? I mean, I guess then it wasn't meant to be.
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\n(Call hangs up)\n\n
